Thursday, November 20, 2014

London Rainer Fraser

Its a GIRL!! My entire pregnancy, I sore I was having a girl and I was right :) Welcome to the World London Rainer Fraser! Born Friday, November 7, 2014 at 1:02am. She weighed 8lbs 12oz and was 19inches long!

It all started on Monday November 3, 2014. Garth and I took Brynn to see an alternative doctor in Cleveland Ohio. I was feeling okay, I was large and swollen with contractions here and there but nothing was regular, so I decided it was okay for me to make the trip to Cleveland. The day was very long-- we had to wait awhile to see the doctor, and as the day progressed, I started to feel icky and mild contractions started to come. On the drive home I was contracting a lot and looked at Garth and told him he better start timing them! Driving in the middle of no where, all I wanted to see was the sign for route 315 because when I saw that, I knew I was home! As we timed my contractions they were coming speratically. 3 mintutes apart then 9 minutes apart then 2 mintues then 10 minutes apart! We finally made it home, I thought it might be go time, and then they stopped. Ugh-- false alarm! Then Tuesday passed, Wednesday passed and nothing! I had a doctors appointment on Thursday, so I was hoping I would get some news on when I would be able to meet this precious little angel that has been growing inside of me for the past almost 10 months :)

On Thursday at my appointment my doctor examined me and he held up 4 fingers with a big smile on his face! By this time, I was so swollen, he knew my body was ready to have this baby! I was 4 cm dialated!! Thank you contractions on Monday, I was finally on my way to having this baby!! My doctor said he was pretty sure that I would deliver sometime that weekend and he was on call so it was perfect timing! However, if for some reason I did not go into labor he was going to induce me slowly on Tuesday. At the beginning of my visit, my blood pressure was a little elevated, so they made me lay on my left side and rechecked me before I was allowed to leave. When they checked me, my blood pressure was back to normal so I was given the okay to leave!

Excited knowing I was going to meet my little bundle of joy soon, I went home and started to get things done around the house just in case I would go into labor. As I did some picking up around the house, I started having back pain. I decided it was time for me to sit down and relax before I had to pick Brynn up from school. After picking Brynn up, my back was still hurting. I had back labor with the twins and knew that was what I was having. It started off mild and within 30 minutes it was coming more frequently and the pain was increasing. I decided it was time to call my doctors office at 3:30pm. The nurse told me that if the pain progressed to head to Labor and Delivery because if I am dialted and I was just examined, it is very common to go into labor and progress very fast. I told her that the pain was consistant and she suggested that I head in!

We had a plan set in place. Simon was working at Riverside Methodist Hospital at the time, so I called him and told him I would let him know when I arrived. Simon was a little in denial because all he wanted was for me to wait to have the baby until Sunday November 9th. Simon had his interview for residency at Doctors Hospital Friday and Saturday the 7th and 8th!! My mom was with Brynn, Mia was with Marion visiting Omi Rita and Opa Jim in Dayton, and I called Garth to drive me to the hospital. After Garth got out of a meeting telling them that his daugther was in labor! He drove me to meet Simon at the hospital! I met up with Simon and we took the elevator up to Labor and Delivery. At this time I was a little uncomfortable but by no means did I look like I was in labor :) I checked in, telling them that I was just examined, 4cm dilated and having back pain. Simon and I were put into a room and explained my symptoms to the nurse. They checked my blood pressure and it was really high. 158/104. I told them that was not normal for me, so they rechecked it. It was still really high and then they looked at my feet and legs and saw how swollen I was. I then told them I started seeing twinkles in my eyes and my BP was not decreasing so they gave admitted me and gave me some meds. After calling and checking in with my doctor, it was decided since I was 38 weeks and 5 days and showing all the signs of pregnancy induced hypertension, I was not going to leave the hospital without a baby in my arms!! Praise the Lord! We were finally going to meet our sweet, little baby!

After being admitted I got my epidural (which only took on my stomach-- no where else, ouch!) and they broke my water at 7pm. Baby Fraser did not like the epidural and her heart rate dropped into the 70s. Everyone was running around preparing me for an emergency c-section if her heart rate did not come up. Thank the Lord, after me breathing in a few deep breaths of oxygen her heart rate went back to normal! Then we had to worry about my BP again :( I had to be put on Magnesium, which is such a nasty drug :( It was to make sure if I continued to have high blood pressure that I would not have a stroke. The nurse told me that most people feel like they have the flu, I luckily did not have that feeling, it just made me feel out of it and the rest of my delivery is blurry with big chunks of time that I do not remember due to the magnesium.

After getting the Magnesium, they gave me pitocin to get my body ready to push out a baby! They ended up increasing the potocine a little bit around 11pm and within an hour I was yelling at Simon to get the nurse because I knew I had to start pushing! I went from 5cm to 10cm in 1 hour!!

My doctor arrived and I pushed roughly for 1 hour.  London's heart rate was not going up or down, it was just staying the same and her shoulder was stuck on my pelvic bone. My doctor did not want to risk anything happening so he decided to use suction to get her out!  At 1:02 am I heard a beautiful sound, a crying baby!! And the words "Its a girl!" Emotions rushed through me. This experience was so different then the twins. One second I laying in a bed with a big, pregnant belly and the next second I am holding my sweet baby girl in my arms! I held London for 2.5 hours straight. We enjoyed skin to skin and I got to nurse her for the first time. A lot of my memory is blurry because of the magnesium but these precious moments, the ones that count, I will hold close to my heart forever! This is what it feels like having a full term baby-- I got to enjoy that over whelming feeling of being a mommy and was able to embrace my baby for hours. For that I will be forever grateful. Thank you God for allowing me to have this experience. Something I have always wanted and prayed for. God is Good!!

I don't know how Simon did it, but he did! He was with London and I the whole time and went from snuggling his newborn baby girl to a full day of interviews! He came back to the hospital spent the night with us and had another full day of interviews on Saturday!!

Sunday November 9th, we took London home to start living our new life of a family of 5!!


Laying in bed, waiting for the pitocin to kick in!

Simon trying to catch some sleep before its go time!

1:02 am Our 1st moments together!

In awe!

Soaking it all in

Proud Daddy!

All cleaned up!

Our new LOVE

In the Nursery after being examined

Sleeping Beauty in our room

Already so in love!

Daddy is back after is Interview

Mia meeting and holding London for the 1st time!

Brynn meeting and holding London for the 1st time!

Getting much needed Mia snuggles!

The men in the family!

Snuggles with Brynn while Chelsea holds London!

My girls!!!!

Mia is one proud big sister!

Meeting Garth!

Hes a proud Grandpa once again!

Proud Auntie KK meeting and hold London for the 1st time!

Sunday the 9th, getting ready to go home!
She is huge! Where was she in me, 2 days earlier?!

Our sweet baby girl!

Absolutely Precious!


More snuggles with daddy!


1st day at home!

So content!

Angelic!

Heaven on Earth!

She holds the rest of my heart!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

September and October 2014

September and October-- Wow! We had a lot of fun and we're jumping with joy, anticipating the arrival of Baby Fraser! As a family we enjoyed a lot of things.. 

*We went to the Upper Arlington Fall Festival. We enjoyed a hay ride, went down blow-up slides and Brynn and Mia got their faces painted!
*We were able to watch daddy play in a charity basketball game and meet the Buckeye Guy!
*We went as a family to an OSU football game. We knew this would be the last opportunity to be a family of 4. We wanted to make sure Brynn and Mia got to do something special before our Special Arrival decided to make their debut!
*We watched Simon and Garth run in the Columbus Marathon! Garth runs the marathon every year. Simon and Garth enjoy long runs together on Saturday mornings, but the furthest Simon ran was 14 miles. However, he woke up the morning of the Marathon and decided to surprise Garth and run it with him! The twins and I hopped on our bikes-- Me very large and pregnant :) and cheered them on! It was a wonderful experience! We are so proud of Si and Gizzy!
*We celebrated Halloween! Mia was a Unicorn and Brynn was a Ninja Turtle! We met up with friends  to Trick-or-Treat! The kids had a blast! It was a great night but after a lot of walking I needed to put my feet up! I was all swollen! Thats what you get being almost 38 weeks pregnant!

Brynn:
*Enjoyed playing soccer! He enjoyed his hour practice/game on Saturdays! He was really good too. He was very good at running and kicking the ball! He even tried his luck being goalie, and did great!

Mia:
*Enjoyed playing soccer as well! She also did a wonderful job running down the field, kicking the ball and scoring goals!
*She had her 1st sleep over! I cannot believe this happened, but it did! She had a wonderful time with her friend Dillon and her sister Brogan!
*Mia and Simon are apart of Indian Princesses. Its a group of dads and daughters that get together and do different activities. This time they had a campout in cabins and did all sort of outdoor activities! Im not sure who has more fun-- the dads or the daughters!

WE SOLD OUR CONDO! After renting out our condo for the past 3 years, we were finally able to sell it! It feels so wonderful to finally not have that weight on our shoulders! Praise the Lord!

Mal and Baby Fraser:
*These months I am 29 weeks-38 weeks pregnant
*I am still loving my pregnancy and enjoying my growing belly
*I am going to the doctor every 2 weeks and then it changed to every week
*I had my cerclage removed
*My legs and feet are beginning to swell pretty bad :( I am only able to wear my birkenstocks!
*As I get closer to delivery, I am becoming more and more uncomfortable, however I feel extremely blessed that I was able to make it full term!
*By the time I reached 36 weeks, I would take warm baths to help relieve some of the pain and it helped tremendously! 
*One of my best friends, Jamie, was 10 weeks behind me in her pregnancy so we were able to lean on each other for support, which I will always be thankful for :)


Our beauty queen!

Hanging outside her cabin during Indian Princess campout!

Our Ninja Turtle and Unicorn!

Our sweet family of 4, waiting for #5 to arrive!

Silly time!

Lizzy wanted to join in on the fun!

Running with her walking stick :)

Loving the outdoor activities!

October 30, 2014
37w5d
1 week before I delivered!

My handsome little man!

Trick-or-Treating with Mia's friend Ella, aka Dorthy!

All smiles!

Raphael!

Mia getting the ball

She is such a fast runner!

Get it girl!

Starting the kick..

...Finishing the kick!

Si outside of our condo.. wait, we don't own it anymore!
Praise the Lord!

Pure Joy!

Trying out her tumbling outfit!

He sleeps so soundly!

Hugs before he dominates his soccer game!

Running with the ball!

Thumbs up!

Someone got a boo boo :(

Leaving for soccer practice!

Selfie!

Team Coordinator picture!
I love my business and my business partners!

September 15, 2014
31w1d

September 15, 2014
31w1d

September 25, 2014
32w4d

Doesn't get prettier then this!

Beer tasting party.. only for Si :)

We showed Brynn the moblies he was obsessed with when he was a baby!

Having fun at Mias swimming lesson

Selfie!

Mia sleeping with her hurt foot elevated!

Mia at her 1st sleepover!

Buckey Guy!

October 15, 2014
35w3d

October 15, 2014
35w3d

Going to the OSU game with the family!
October 18, 2014
35w6d

Where is Mia?

Hugs during the Marathon!

Mommy wouldn't let her do this :)

Our for a walk and ice cream with her kindergarten class!

Brynns soccer team!

He was an awesome goalie!

Walking and chatting with a friend!

Work it girl!

Eating chocolate Froyo!

Bunk beds are the best!

Her 1st love!

Her favorite person in the whole wide world!

Brutus!

Family Pic!

Brynn drew a picture of our family and put
a baby in my belly! Sweetest thing ever!

Loving his trophy!

My favorite people!

My little princess, now and forever!

Beyond blessed!

Go get your run on! 

Hanging with Flat Stanley!

Cheese!

Best buds!